The Tough Standard: The Hard Truths about Masculinity and Violence Format:Hardcover with such visceral clarity and

with such visceral clarity and beauty

She'd really just prefer if no one made a big deal about it so she can move on with her life

Gilman is Distinguished Professor of the Arts and Sciences at Emory University

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"An important and timely read

The Tough Standard: The Hard Truths about Masculinity and Violence Format:Hardcover with such visceral clarity andMen are commonly expected to act "masculine" (e. g., self sufficient, stoic, strong, dependable, brave, tough, and hard working) while avoiding stereotypically "feminine" traits (e. g., emotional expressivity, empathy, and nurturance). Few, however, realize that these qualities when taken to the extreme can cause emotional constriction, substance abuse, depression, aggression, and violence in many men. Further, even though most men are not violent,